I need to start off this post by saying that I was never physically abused but abuse is abuse even if he didn't lay a hand on me. The emotional and mental abuse took a toll on my future relationships as a result of my traumatic past relationship with my abuser and many people ask… Continue reading the impending realities of getting out of an abusive relationship
I've written about this many times and I suppose, this will be the last time I ever will. It's come to that point in my life where I close this chapter of the book and go onto the next one. To move on and accept that whilst the events had unfolded many months ago, I… Continue reading is it time to forgive?
This is not the story of how good deeds go unpunished. This is not the story of how good people are always on the bad end of the lucky spectrum. And this is not a story of the good being bad. No, this is an experience that I, and millions of others have all felt… Continue reading punishing the good
Thrice, I have been rejected by boys I sought after in my lifetime. Rejected of the love that I desired in exchange for the affections that they might offer. What is this in life? What is it to be rejected over and over again only to be told that it is useless, that I need… Continue reading reception to rejection
Sometimes, we all need life to knock us down. It gives us the sense of a reality check, the sense of everything that crashes down on us and it's important for us to understand that we need that. We need to understand that when life knocks us down, we have to get back up and not… Continue reading getting your shit together 101
I realised many things the day my father died. One, I lost everything and two, my life was going to spiral out of control. Both of which are true, and both of which made me fall into this pit of potential depression. I admit one thing; I had thought about death many times since then.… Continue reading taking control of my life