I must express my anxiety in writing this. This has been no easy task in the last few weeks but to reflect is greatly beneficial and this episode did not disappoint. I had known her for almost two years now. We were not close in the first year, and only grew closer in the last… Continue reading to a friend
I need to start off this post by saying that I was never physically abused but abuse is abuse even if he didn't lay a hand on me. The emotional and mental abuse took a toll on my future relationships as a result of my traumatic past relationship with my abuser and many people ask… Continue reading the impending realities of getting out of an abusive relationship
In my last post, I spoke about how I had at some point, wanted to marry someone I had only known for a month. I spoke about how I loved him as a person if not a lover, and I spoke high about him as how one would have spoken about a blissful relationship. I… Continue reading it takes a real woman to recognise immaturity
We already had a gist of what our future relationship would be like. It would've been long-distance mostly, speaking over the phone and seeing each other's faces on the other side of the screen. We wouldn't have been able to be together more than we were together but for me, that was what made me… Continue reading at some point, i wanted to marry a guy i only knew for a month
Was it worth it bringing up a topic that we were both not ready to talk about? To begin with, it was meant to be a discussion, a way to talk about our feelings and communicate but communication goes both ways and sometimes, not everyone gets it. So was it worth it, bringing up a… Continue reading was it worth it?
I've written about this many times and I suppose, this will be the last time I ever will. It's come to that point in my life where I close this chapter of the book and go onto the next one. To move on and accept that whilst the events had unfolded many months ago, I… Continue reading is it time to forgive?
I'm sitting here at the dining room table during Ramadan, a holy Muslim fasting month, thinking about what I could name this post but I couldn't find one that was apt for what I'm about to talk about. Just recently, I've been having these thoughts in my head about what life was worth and how… Continue reading untitled